You are not here merely to make a living. You are here in order to enable the world to live more amply, with greater vision, with a finer spirit of hope and achievement. You are here to enrich the world, and you impoverish yourself if you forget the errand.
The only things I know firsthand come from a couple of friends who played with him, and they really liked him as a teammate. I put more weight on that than the rest of the stuff that has been so well-documented.
Your 'everybody' probably represents even a smaller proportion of the population than your Rolodex. Psychologists have documented that our typical everybody- to which they refer as the 'generalized other'-is usually a collection of about five or six people.